In a revealing interview on SuperstarTVOnline, legendary comedian TJ Kirkland sat down with host Superstar Jay to discuss his philosophy on comedy, relationships, finances, and why he prefers the City of Light over marriage. From navigating Hollywood’s pay disparities to the importance of flossing, Kirkland didn’t hold back on his unfiltered insights.
Comedy is the Side Hustle—Business Comes First
Despite his reputation in stand-up, Kirkland doesn’t consider himself a comedian first. “I’m a businessman,” he clarified, explaining that comedy is just one of his many ventures. He credits his enduring popularity to tackling real-life experiences that audiences connect with, rather than chasing viral moments or trendy topics.
Paris Over Pettiness: A Life of Independence
Kirkland, who now resides in Paris and performs internationally, has no interest in settling down. He made it clear that relationships come second to his peace of mind, saying he avoids “pettiness” and “confusion” at all costs. Instead, he prioritizes self-reliance—a mindset shaped in part by losing his entire immediate family before the age of 40.
The Wealth Game: Play Smart, Not Hard
Financial independence is a major pillar of Kirkland’s lifestyle. He urged young men to save money before pursuing relationships and to focus on investments rather than fleeting luxuries. He also called out the entertainment industry’s racial pay gap, noting that Black entertainers like Jamie Foxx, Terrence Howard, and Taraji P. Henson have historically been underpaid compared to their white counterparts.
Aging, Health & Grooming: The TJ Blueprint
Kirkland doesn’t just talk success—he lives it. His daily routine includes working out, eating clean, and prioritizing preventative healthcare with quarterly doctor visits. He also stressed the importance of male grooming, from flossing to dressing well. “Presentation matters,” he emphasized.
Lessons from Suge, Diddy & the Cost of Ego
Reflecting on industry figures like Suge Knight and P. Diddy, Kirkland warned about the dangers of achieving too much too young. He believes unchecked egos and poor decisions have derailed many powerful men in entertainment. His personal goal? Stay healthy, stay wealthy, and continue performing—on his own terms.
With a children’s book, ongoing international shows, and a business-first mindset, Kirkland is proving that success isn’t just about making money—it’s about keeping it.
