Tima isn’t holding back. On the final clip of her appearance on the Fully Loaded Podcast, the media personality delivers an unfiltered take on dating culture, emotional red flags, and the unspoken truths many couples experience behind closed doors. What starts as playful banter turns into a layered conversation that touches on intimacy, self-worth, and how attraction can be more psychological than physical.
The conversation kicks off with Tima sharing advice on how men can tell they’re not the main guy in a woman’s life. Her cues are subtle but sharp: if she suddenly avoids using her phone around you, if the kissing dies down, or if she never invites you over to her place—what she casually refers to as “the Baja”—then chances are, you’re not a priority. The table flips when the topic shifts to red flags women should look out for in men. For Tima, a man who never feeds you, only texts after midnight, or refuses to kiss you on the lips is clearly not invested. The group agrees: it’s the small behaviors that reveal the bigger truth.
The energy shifts into something more intimate and comical when Tima opens up about sending a nude to a man she’d been talking to for months. Feeling bold, she wanted to spice things up, but instead of texting it directly—worried he might be around other women—she sent it via Instagram’s vanish mode. The moment turned into a bonding laugh between her and a friend, but it also sparked a larger conversation around how people manage and reuse their explicit content.
Tima admits she’s recycled the same “fire” nude to more than one person, and one of the podcast hosts confesses to doing the same with an old photo featuring a remote for scale. The honesty doesn’t stop there: both men and women agree that curated content can take time and energy, and sometimes having a few favorites in the vault makes life easier. Facetime, however, was praised as the superior option—more spontaneous, less permanent, and free from the digital paper trail.
As the conversation deepens, a more serious question comes up: Would you rather be with a rich man who abuses you or a broke man who loves and cares for you? Tima doesn’t hesitate. She picks the broke man every time, explaining that emotional safety outweighs financial stability. “I’m not taking beatings,” she says plainly. “Hell no. Them dudes be strong.” Her tone is part humor, part sobering truth—reminding viewers that money can’t fix everything, especially trauma.
When asked if women know immediately whether they want to sleep with someone, Tima explains that it depends. Sometimes it’s instant. Other times, it grows. She shares a recent experience with a man she initially found unattractive online. But after meeting in person for a work-related project, she realized he had a presence that was impossible to ignore. It was his aura and energy, not his looks, that flipped the switch.
Later, the group tackles another debate: If you were a wealthy man, would you marry a rich, already-established woman or a woman with less money who’s open to being molded and guided? Most of the men leaned toward the latter. Their reasoning wasn’t about control—it was about compatibility. They shared concerns about wealthy women being “stuck in their ways,” unwilling to step back and let someone else lead. In contrast, a partner who’s still growing might be more open to learning, collaboration, and mutual development. The conversation reveals more about how some men define leadership and emotional balance in a relationship.
Just when things get serious, the energy switches again—this time with a hypothetical fight. The question? Who wins: 100 average men or one gorilla? The consensus is that while the gorilla would dominate the first few minutes, sheer numbers and confusion might eventually lead him to flee. It’s ridiculous, but the laughs are genuine.
Before wrapping up, the cast plays one final round: If you had to lose one of your five senses, which one would it be? Almost everyone agrees—smell. No more dealing with body odor, bad breath, or mystery farts. Tima jokes that even if her man came home sweaty after the gym, she wouldn’t care. “I’ll just do a taste test,” she says, sparking one last burst of laughter.
Beneath the humor and wild scenarios, the clip highlights something deeper: that modern relationships are messy, that everyone’s figuring it out in real time, and that some truths—no matter how uncomfortable—are better laughed at than ignored. Tima closes the episode with candor, wit, and a reminder that attraction and love aren’t just about status or looks. Sometimes, it’s all about energy, respect, and knowing your worth.
