In this Thanksgiving episode of The Need To Know Podcast, hosts SaVon, Alex, and Regi reflect on gratitude and the spirit of the holiday. SaVon humorously admits his reluctance to podcast during Thanksgiving week but ultimately embraces the chance to express thanks. Regi, who is traveling to Brazil for the holiday, shares her family’s unique approach to the celebration. The conversation also touches on guiding philosophies, including one host’s mantra of “hope for the best, prepare for the worst,” a principle learned from his father’s time in prison.
As the conversation progresses, the hosts delve into personal gratitude. SaVon expresses deep appreciation for life itself, acknowledging the simple blessings of being alive and healthy. Reggie shares gratitude for his professional journey and the opportunities it has brought. The hosts blend humor and reflection, encouraging listeners to appreciate the small and big blessings in their own lives.
The discussion shifts to personal philosophies on relationships and emotional boundaries. One host talks about how the mantra of preparing for the worst has shaped their approach to relationships, leading to emotional caution and, at times, failed connections. Another host reflects on the importance of maintaining emotional boundaries, staying mindful of highs and lows, and avoiding extremes. The group also recognizes the value of vulnerability, even though they don’t often show emotions like crying publicly.
As they express thanks for their lives, one host reflects on their healthy relationships, job, and well-being, while another highlights personal growth in 2023 and the importance of consistency in 2024. The group emphasizes the significance of being grateful for their community, particularly a loyal commenter who has supported them.
The hosts also discuss their personal growth and challenges over the past year. Reggie expresses appreciation for the recognition she’s received for being level-headed and genuine, while Alex shares how he has been feeling overwhelmed despite his humor. His faith in God has been a source of strength, and he’s thankful for the support he has. They explore the importance of faith and therapy, with one host planning to start therapy soon and another offering advice on finding a good therapist, acknowledging the significance of cultural understanding in the process.
Further into the conversation, the hosts reflect on their emotional and cultural experiences. One host shares how they once “ghosted” their therapist but later reconnected, learning that the therapist had been battling cancer while still supporting her clients. This changed their perspective on life. Another host is grateful for the upcoming arrival of their child, learning to become more nurturing. They also express appreciation for the sacrifices their immigrant parents made, underscoring the value of the opportunities they now have.
The group reflects on the struggles of being Black American and disconnected from their roots due to historical erasure. One host shares how his mother’s sacrifices shaped his life, and they discuss the complexity of identity and the experience of being a first-generation individual. The group also expresses gratitude for the freedoms they enjoy, such as access to resources and the ability to express themselves openly. They discuss the pain of losing people but also recognize how healing and growth come with time.
As the conversation turns to a lighter note, the group debates their favorite holidays. Christmas takes the top spot for most, with its family-centered nature, while Thanksgiving ranks highly for most but lower for Regi, due to cultural differences. Halloween and the Fourth of July receive mixed reviews, and Martin Luther King Jr. Day sparks humorous debate. The conversation also included discussion about their favorite “Caucasian classic” songs, and so much more.
