In the latest episode of Let’s Try This Again, host B. Simone welcomes her best friend Candace Bolden and her husband, former NFL player-turned-herbalist Omar Bolden, for a raw and hilarious conversation about marriage, faith, and personal growth. Their love story is anything but picture-perfect—and they wouldn’t have it any other way.
Candace and Omar’s journey began when Omar was fresh off a Super Bowl win. Their first date? Less about small talk and more about deep conversations on purpose, goals, and the future. But their romance took an unconventional turn when Omar penned Candace a letter, explaining that he needed time to figure out his life before committing fully. Despite the pause, their connection remained strong, leading them to an intimate wedding that—while full of love—was also a complete disaster.
Imagine this: A vintage ‘67 Pontiac convertible with no air conditioning on one of the hottest August days. Racing against time to make it to their boat wedding while Omar’s father was suddenly hospitalized (thankfully, it was just a Twizzler incident). A hurricane rolling into L.A. just as they exchanged vows. And to top it all off? Candace and her stepmother getting seasick and throwing up on the boat. If that wasn’t enough, their car ran out of gas on the 405 freeway after the ceremony. “It was the worst day,” they admit, “but the best decision.”
Through every challenge, one thing remained at the center of their relationship: faith. Omar and Candace shared how their journey moved from a religious mindset to a deeply personal connection with God. They prioritize gratitude for even the smallest blessings, pray together, and lean on each other spiritually. Omar also opened up about laying down his ego to become the man his marriage needed, while Candace reflected on balancing her independence as an entrepreneur with being a supportive wife.
The couple also stressed the importance of communication, therapy, and never speaking negatively about each other. “We’re partners,” Omar said. “We support and challenge each other, but at the end of the day, we’re each other’s peace.”
After years in professional sports, Omar found his true calling in holistic health. Motivated by his own health struggles, Candace’s battle with PCOS, and a close friend’s fight with cancer, he launched The Culture’s Herb, a brand dedicated to natural healing.
Offering a range of herbal supplements for men’s and women’s health, the brand emphasizes transparency and education about plant-based solutions. Some of their best-sellers include:
- Queen Pack (with soursop leaves)
- Women’s Blend (hormone balance & bloating support)
- Berberine supplement (metabolism & blood sugar support)
- Damiana-based formulas (for hormone balance & libido)
Omar is currently in school to become a licensed herbalist, adding credibility to his growing business. “It’s not just about selling herbs,” he shared. “It’s about changing lives.”
Candace and Omar’s journey is proof that love isn’t about perfection—it’s about partnership. Whether you’re navigating relationships, faith, or self-growth, their story is one you don’t want to miss.