In a recent episode of Lip Service, rapper Finesse 2Tymes sits down with Angela Yee and her crew for a revealing conversation about his personal growth, emotional struggles, and evolving relationships. Through candid discussions, he delves into topics such as emotional intimacy, trauma, mental health, and his efforts to break free from past cycles of behavior.
Finesse 2Tymes opens up about his challenges with physical intimacy, particularly in the wake of his experiences in prison. He explains that he has a difficult time with acts of affection like hugging and kissing, which stems from his lack of affection during childhood. A pivotal moment in his emotional growth occurred when he witnessed the birth of his child, an experience that encouraged him to become more emotionally vulnerable and open with those close to him.
Discussing his relationship with a loyal and supportive partner, Finesse shares the emotional turbulence of discovering that a child he thought was his was not. He reflects on how this revelation was a painful reminder of his past trauma, but he’s working to ensure that past wounds don’t dictate the future of his relationships. Communication and personal growth have become cornerstones for him as he moves forward in his personal life, striving to be more emotionally available and connected.
Finesse reveals his ongoing journey of self-improvement, noting that while he hasn’t yet sought therapy, he practices what he calls “self-therapy” through deep reflection on his past experiences. He attributes much of his self-awareness and emotional growth to his time spent in prison, where he dedicated himself to developing a spiritual and mental understanding of life. He’s currently focused on managing his anger and transforming his approach to relationships, constantly striving for better emotional regulation.
Finesse opens up about his challenging upbringing, which led him to follow in the footsteps of his father, a former gangster and pimp, ultimately resulting in his time in prison. However, his perspective shifted dramatically after becoming a father, as witnessing the birth of his child helped him develop empathy and a new outlook on life, particularly when it comes to understanding women. His changing mindset now emphasizes respect, care, and emotional connection in relationships.
The conversation also touches on the profound impact of prison on Finesse’s outlook on life. He explains how studying intellectual books, including The Art of War, helped him adopt a more strategic and calm approach to life’s challenges. This mindset has allowed him to reject the need to prove his toughness and instead focus on mental preparation, understanding that each situation requires a different strategy for success.
In the next segment of the interview, Finesse reflects on past regrets, particularly the impulsive actions that once defined his behavior. He now stresses the importance of acting with good intentions, making the right choices, and finding peace with the outcomes, regardless of what they may be. This growth, both personal and spiritual, marks a significant shift in his journey toward healing and self-improvement.
The conversation also takes a lighthearted turn as Finesse shares his personal preferences regarding intimacy, including his thoughts on oral sex, grooming habits, and sexual reciprocity. He reveals that he has only performed oral sex on five women and expresses his belief that mutual respect and good communication are essential in sexual relationships. He also discusses grooming, with a particular emphasis on manscaping, maintaining hygiene in relationships and much more.
