In the latest episode of Pour Minds, Devale Ellis—actor, podcast host, former NFL player, devoted father, and husband—joined Lex P and Drea Nicole for an insightful conversation. The multi-faceted star discussed his transition from professional football to Hollywood, the key ingredients for a successful marriage, the significance of the Black family unit, and much more.
Born and raised in Brooklyn, Ellis initially saw football as a stepping stone, using it as a means to an end. Despite being drawn to arts and entertainment, he pursued a career in the NFL, all while maintaining an eye on his true passion: TV and film. He eventually earned his degree in broadcast journalism, setting the stage for his eventual pivot to acting.
Ellis’s entertainment career began as a stunt double for Omari Hardwick on “Power”, eventually landing him a guest role where he played the iconic Ghost for one episode. The experience was transformative, especially after an encounter with 50 Cent, who offered valuable advice on content creation and the importance of consistency in the industry.
Ellis’s podcasting journey began alongside his wife Kadine, who shares his background in broadcast journalism. Together, the couple has built a thriving platform, now 15 seasons deep. They reflected on the freedom of podcasting compared to traditional media and the challenges that come with navigating social media criticism. Ellis opened up about handling the “dragging” that comes with having strong opinions in the public eye.
The couple’s journey to marriage started back in elementary school, where they first met. Though they didn’t date at the time, they reconnected years later when Ellis was receiving an award at their old school. Kadine took the initiative to pursue him, which was a departure from the typical dating advice he had received. Their first date, filled with deep discussions about career goals and life plans, showed Kadine’s early signs of being the wife Ellis had always hoped for.
In the episode, Ellis discussed the importance of standing firm in one’s truth despite the inevitable criticism that comes with being a public figure. He spoke candidly about how social media can create false narratives and the challenge of handling those who disagree with his views. Nevertheless, Ellis stressed that it’s essential to speak your mind and remain authentic, regardless of the backlash.
