In this episode of ‘New Rory & Mal’, the crew delve into complex topics surrounding relationships, career choices, and the desire to leave America for a better life abroad. The conversation begins with a candid discussion on dating preferences, especially concerning women with gang affiliations. They express concerns about the potential risks involved in dating someone with a past tied to gangs, citing ongoing threats and conflicts as possible complications.
A particularly eye-opening moment occurs when one of the hosts shares their surprise at learning about women being sexually initiated into gangs, contrasting this with the more commonly known physical initiation processes. The conversation then shifts to another relationship dealbreaker: dating someone involved in the adult film industry or platforms like OnlyFans. While they emphasize that they don’t judge anyone for these career choices, the hosts admit that they personally wouldn’t be comfortable dating someone actively engaged in these professions.
The hosts stress that their views are personal and not intended to shame anyone, but they do acknowledge that ongoing involvement in such industries would be a dealbreaker for them. The conversation then takes an international turn, as the crew discusses their thoughts on leaving America. Several hosts express a desire to move abroad, with one mentioning plans to look at houses in London next spring as a stepping stone for future travel.
The reasons for wanting to leave the U.S. are clear: a better work-life balance, less stress, more community-oriented cultures, and affordable living costs. The hosts are tired of the American cycle of “work-pay bills-repeat” and are seriously considering a move to escape it. However, they also acknowledge the challenges that come with such a big transition—family ties, financial considerations, job security, and leaving the corporate structure.
The episode includes their nostalgic reflections on their college experiences, reminiscing about trends like LiveStrong bracelets and “sex bracelets,” as well as their youth in New York and the gang culture they encountered there. The conversation then shifts to the influence of sports team merchandise on gang affiliations in Los Angeles. Despite their dissatisfaction with the American lifestyle, the hosts reflect fondly on their shared cultural memories growing up in New York, adding a sentimental tone to their serious discussions about the future.
