In this Patreon Exclusive episode of “WHOREible Decisions” podcast, a listener posed a two-part question to co-host Mandii B, blending vulnerability and curiosity about sex and relationships. At 25, the caller revealed she’s a virgin and is now ready to explore her sexual life. She also expressed a desire to navigate the world of dating, asking for advice on how to get involved with wealthy men and “fly out” opportunities.
Mandii’s response was thoughtful and candid, breaking the question into two parts. Addressing the listener’s desire to lose her virginity, Mandii emphasized the importance of being intentional and open with the partner about this milestone. She noted that while there’s no “perfect” way to lose one’s virginity, it’s crucial to make sure the person respects and understands the significance of the moment.
As for the second part—how to find affluent men and secure financial perks—Mandii reflected on her own past experiences. She revealed that she used to engage in what she now calls “survival sex,” trading intimacy for money or material benefits. With the benefit of hindsight and personal growth, Mandii no longer advises women to engage in such transactions unless necessary. Instead, she encourages women to seek meaningful relationships with men who genuinely value them and want to enhance their lives.
Mandii’s message was clear: be intentional in both your sexual and romantic pursuits, and aim for genuine connection and affection rather than seeking financial gain through transactional relationships.
